[exim] lowest numbered MX record points to local host

Hi,

I have upgrade exim to version 4.43 and after the upgrade i have a problem
whit exim.

When i mail form a extern adres to my local adres i will see the follow
error
2004-10-07 11:04:46 H=smtp-vbr2.xs4all.nl [194.109.24.22]
F=<d0pey@???> rejected RCPT <wouter@???>: relay not
permitted

The follow line form my log will be say the mail is dilverd but where ? i
dont know because the adress i have never made.
But phyton.adddrenaline.com is the name of my box....

2004-10-07 11:05:04 1CFUCq-0004zB-PH <= backpack@???
U=backpack P=local S=1516
2004-10-07 11:05:04 1CFUCq-0004zB-PH => backpack
<backpack@???> R=localuser T=local_delivery
2004-10-07 11:05:04 1CFUCq-0004zB-PH Completed

Here i will mail form my local mail adress to my self and he gives again a
error. But i dont understand what is the problem....

2004-10-07 11:05:27 lowest numbered MX record points to local host:
addrenaline.com (while verifying <wouter@???> from host
smtp-vbr8.xs4all.nl [194.109.24.28])
2004-10-07 11:05:27 H=smtp-vbr8.xs4all.nl [194.109.24.28] sender verify
defer for <wouter@???>: lowest numbered MX record points to
local host
2004-10-07 11:05:27 H=smtp-vbr8.xs4all.nl [194.109.24.28]
F=<wouter@???> temporarily rejected RCPT
<wouter@???>: Could not complete sender verify

is there some who can help me whit this problem ?

Greets Wouter

note: I have add one letter to the mail adresses for spam....