My MTA is behind my firewall, it sends SMTP to my public mail server,
which relays (smart host) via relay1.thorcom.net.
Relay1.thorcom.net is Devuan 4 Chimaera with Exim 4.94.2 built from source:
root@relay1:/var/log/exim# exim --version
Exim version 4.94.2 #2 built 04-Jan-2022 14:20:39
Copyright (c) University of Cambridge, 1995 - 2018
(c) The Exim Maintainers and contributors in ACKNOWLEDGMENTS file, 2007
- 2018
Berkeley DB: Berkeley DB 5.3.28: (September 9, 2013)
Support for: crypteq iconv() IPv6 Perl OpenSSL move_frozen_messages
Content_Scanning DKIM DNSSEC Event OCSP PIPE_CONNECT PRDR SPF
TCP_Fast_Open Experimental_SRS
Lookups (built-in): lsearch wildlsearch nwildlsearch iplsearch dbm dbmjz
dbmnz dnsdb mysql passwd
Authenticators: plaintext
Routers: accept dnslookup ipliteral manualroute queryprogram redirect
Transports: appendfile/maildir/mbx autoreply pipe smtp
Malware: f-protd f-prot6d drweb aveserver fsecure kavdaemon sophie clamd
mksd avast sock cmdline
Fixed never_users: 0
Configure owner: 0:0
Size of off_t: 8
Configuration file is /etc/exim/exim.conf
Smaller text-only emails to Gmail users work fine. Attach a full HD
image (1920 x 1080 Jpeg) and the message ends up being around 980K in
size, when I attempt to send it it stalls on relay1.thorcom.net.
Logs on relay1.thorcom.net show incoming from my server (mail.tubby.org)
just fine: