On Tue, Mar 13, 2007 at 10:37:46AM +0100, Michael Rouba wrote:
> I am not new to Exim, but it is my first time setting up an
> Internetserver for also relaying to specific domains.
If you don't mind setting up MySQL and apache to control everything
through a simple web interface, check out
http://silverwraith.com/vexim/
It's quite popular, stable and has a decent support community behind it.
It does everything you're looking for, and a bunch more (optional) stuff
too.