[Exim] exim 4 times out..

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Yes read the faqs ..

get alot of this type of error..
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2003-07-29 17:06:00 no host name found for IP address 146.82.188.9
2003-07-29 17:06:00 SMTP connection from [146.82.188.9]:8773 (TCP/IP connection count = 1)
2003-07-29 17:06:00 SMTP connection from [146.82.188.9]:8773 lost
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SMTP connection from m2.postalmanager.com [69.1.194.67]:5760 (TCP/IP connection count = 2)
SMTP connection from m2.postalmanager.com [69.1.194.67]:5760 lost
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19hWOt-0004d1-UV mail.verycooltechstuff.com [69.59.159.4]: Connection timed out
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I have resorted to using my wndows mail server as a secondary, and it recieves the missing mail no problem..

How and where to do i change the timeout settings ? if that is the problem..

Many Thanks
Gregory Machin
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