[Exim] exim and starttls

Hello

Im trying to set up exim with starttls
so i make cert and private key
and in the end i cannot send any email via ssl

i got error in logs

SMTP protocol error in "STARTTLS" H=[xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx]:1473 STARTTLS command
used when not advertised
SMTP>> 503 STARTTLS command used when not advertised

but in configure i added a line
tls_advertise_hosts = *

so what am I doing wrong??