[Exim] Command line config changes?

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I would like to make some configuration changes to Exim, but my leased dedicated server has CPanel installed and it evidently prevents the use of eximon.

I want to limit undeliverables to only two tries, and I want to activate "split-spool".

Any suggestions? I have never configured Exim before, with or without eximon.

Thanks, Mike
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