[Exim] Queue dramas.

Hi all...

Im new to Exim, so please go easy on me ;)

I have looked through all the FAQs, searched google, etc, but i cannot find out how to stop Exim from queueing incoming messages.
Ive tried everything the FAQ sugests, but none of the settings seem to help.
Currently im trying "smtp_accept_queue_per_connection=1000" to stop queueing, but its not working either.

Can anyone suggest a fix?

Actually, all i really want is a MTA (or other) that will accept messages from
Fetchmail and put them in the spool so i can then use procmail and mutt to read
them. I dont need to use a MTA to send mail as im using ssmtp to send it
dirctly to my ISPs mail server.
If there some other way i can do this without using Exim, sendmail, etc?

Thanks,
Mark W.