stuck message

Here's what exim -bP shows:

exim -bp
22h 0vCqPm-0005q8-00 <72731.3417@???>
    susie.fisanich@???

Here's something interesting (this process has been sitting since
1:30pm yesterday EST):

  0 S    exim 22456     1  0 154 20  4277c40   96  5a19458 13:04:38 ?        0:00 /local/exim/exim -Mc 0vCqPm-0005q8-